For centuries, the belief that men are inherently superior to women has been woven into cultural, social, and even religious narratives. It often undermines the principles of equality and justice. In many traditional South Asian and Islamic contexts, this idea has shaped expectations for women and limited their potential. But what if these beliefs were not rooted in Divine law at all? What if they came from mistranslations, cultural conditioning, and patriarchal systems created to maintain control?
In this episode with Eram Saeed, she takes a bold stand on a topic that has triggered heated debates for centuries: “Men are not superior to women.” Drawing on Quranic evidence, linguistic analysis, and years of transformational coaching, Eram dismantles false narratives in religious discourse. She reveals how misinterpretations have been used to justify patriarchy, and how returning to Divine justice restores equality between men and women.
This is an invitation to break free from beliefs that limit your potential and silence your voice. It’s a call to reclaim your spiritual autonomy, challenge injustice, and live by the truth that God’s justice knows no gender. If you believe in fairness, freedom, and the power of truth, this episode will speak directly to you.
“Men are not superior to women.” A simple phrase that sparked a flood of comments, both supportive and critical. Within hours, social media lit up with debates, misunderstandings, and passionate defenses. The statement challenged deeply rooted cultural and religious beliefs, making it a lightning rod for discussion.
Some applauded the message, recognizing it as a stand for equality and justice. Others reacted defensively, feeling their worldview threatened. Supportive men praised the courage it took to make the statement publicly, while critics—both men and women—dismissed it outright. The controversy revealed how entrenched gender biases still are, even within religious discourse.
The discussion quickly turned toward how the Quran is read and understood. Eram drew from her background in Arabic, acquired during her years in Kuwait, to compare translations. She favors interpretations by linguistic experts such as Nouman Ali Khan, who prioritize the Quran’s original language over cultural bias.
She criticized translations from the Indo-Pak subcontinent, which often interpret “kawam” as “ruler.” This choice, she argued, reflects historical conditioning rather than Divine intent. Such mistranslations have been used for generations to justify controlling women. She made it clear that challenging biased interpretations is not the same as denying the Quran.
The word “kawam,” she explained, refers to a caretaker or guardian—someone who supports and upholds, not someone who dominates. Leadership in Islam carries responsibility and service, not privilege or superiority. True authority belongs only to Allah, and any human role is defined by His rules.
Thus, we should remember:
When Islam came to be, women in many societies were treated as property. The Quran transformed their status, granting them rights to own property, inherit, and participate in public life. These changes were revolutionary for the 7th century and challenged prevailing social norms.
Over the centuries, Greek philosophical influence crept into Muslim scholarship, often devaluing women’s roles. This influence led to a gradual erosion of the rights that early Muslim women enjoyed. Eram stressed that obedience is due to Allah alone, not to men, and both genders are equal servants of God. She urged a return to the original spirit of the Quran’s message.
Eram invited men claiming superiority to provide proof. Was it wealth? She is a self-made multi-millionaire who employs highly accomplished men, including a New York Times best-selling author. Her professional success challenges the idea that financial ability is inherently male. She pointed out that economic achievement depends on skill and effort, not gender.
She also highlighted examples from Islamic history, such as Khadijah (RA), a wealthy and respected businesswoman. These examples show that women have excelled economically since the earliest days of Islam. If wealth is the measure, she argued, it cannot be claimed as a male advantage.
Next came the argument of physical strength. Eram acknowledged biological differences but reminded her audience that strength alone does not define superiority. Women can train, protect themselves, and hire skilled defenders if necessary. She has personally handled situations requiring courage, including dealing with wildlife near her home.
On intelligence, she noted that Muslim women today outperform men in academics and professional fields. In the West, they represent a trillion-dollar economic force. She repeatedly asked: if superiority is measured by achievement, where is the evidence that men consistently lead?
Eram challenged the belief that men are more emotionally resilient. She described winning a difficult legal battle against one of Dallas’ top attorneys—without legal representation. That victory required composure, strategy, and confidence under intense pressure.
She also raised two daughters as a single mother, both of whom are independent and accomplished. Her youngest manages her finances, lives alone in a high-rise, and thrives in skills often labeled “male.” These examples show that emotional strength, like capability, is not bound by gender.
The discussion ended with a challenge and an invitation. Eram urged men who believe in equality and justice to speak out. Their voices are vital in confronting harmful narratives and supporting change. Silence, she warned, allows oppressive attitudes to thrive.
She called on women to commit to personal growth and deprogramming deep-rooted beliefs. This work requires therapy, education, and sustained effort over time. Her mission is to empower Muslim women to lead change in their communities and beyond. The call is clear: dismantle false hierarchies, live by the justice of Islam, and step into a future where equality is lived, not debated.
Long before the world recognized the transformative power of gratitude, Eram Saeed was living its stark opposite. Burdened by financial struggles, legal battles, and single parenthood, she found herself on the brink of despair. Despite hitting multiple dead ends—from a series of lawsuits to crushing anxiety—Eram kept searching for a lifeline.
Her moment came when she discovered practicing gratitude. With only a phone alarm and a simple journal, Eram began to record and reflect on small blessings throughout her day. Within weeks, she experienced a dramatic shift: stress and worry receded, replaced by a newfound sense of hope. This inner transformation fueled change—from improved health and relationships to the launch of her teachings around the “Four T’s” (Tawheed, the Tashakkur, Taqwa, and Tavakkal).
Today, Eram stands as a testament to the idea that the path to lasting happiness and success begins inside. By teaching others to embrace gratitude and shift from perceived lack to abundance, she’s helped countless individuals break free from limiting beliefs and step into a meaningful life.
“Men are not superior to women. I don't know why that statement had to trigger so many people, but at the same time, I understand the programming that a lot of you guys, men and women both have, and when somebody triggers your programming, it is very painful and uncomfortable for some people.”
“The word kawam does not mean ruler. All scholars now agree on it.”
“If you are a man and you feel you are superior to women, just because you were born with a certain kind of anatomy in which you actually had nothing to do, you did not have to accomplish or achieve anything to come out of your mother's body as a man. So you tell me how you are superior to me based on everything I just said.”
“As a husband, you have responsibilities to your wife for which you are answerable to Allah. As a wife, you have responsibilities to your husband. You are answerable to Allah, and both of you have responsibilities to your own parents and your own.”
“Allah is just. Allah is fair and Allah is kind.”
The belief that men are inherently superior to women has been passed down for generations. However, that doesn’t make it true. As Eram Saeed reveals, much of this thinking comes from mistranslations, cultural conditioning, and systems built to control. When we strip away these layers, the Quran’s message becomes clear: equality and justice are God-given truths.
Listen to the Full Episode – Eram challenges deeply ingrained ideas, asking us to consider: Who taught you that men are above women? What verses have you read for yourself instead of accepting secondhand interpretations? Her insights urge us to return to the justice of Allah, free from cultural distortion.
Reflect on Your Own Beliefs – Think about the messages you’ve accepted about gender roles. Are they truly from God, or are they wrought from generations of bias disguised as religion? Eram invites both men and women to examine these beliefs and reclaim equality and justice.
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